Wednesday, May 13, 2020

Be good to children first۔




Every society has an ideology and the building is built on it. This is the basis of its identity. The values ​​and culture of the society reflect its ideology. If we are negligent from the very beginning, then on such a basis.  A building cannot last long.  It is the negligence and carelessness that causes the deterioration of society. Today, the home, the family, the educational institutions, the media, our national priorities and ideologies are being pushed aside.  Have to go back

 The question is, what are the factors that are changing our civilization, how can they be prevented, and what is our role as women in fostering a society?  In fact, much of the change in our values ​​is due to the enforcement and enforcement of laws.


 In fact, our laws are not being followed.  The country also has a number of laws pertaining to women.  If we make our women aware of this, they can do a lot. If they only make the people around them aware and raise their voice for it by making them aware of the laws, many positive changes can take place.


 The home environment has a profound effect on a child's personality.  The school provides basic education to the children. Earlier, children aged four years and above were admitted to the school, but now mothers are ready to enroll their two-year-old children.

 However, this is the best time when mother's lap, grandmother's affection and sibling's love is the greatest school, for which there is no substitute. So institutions are later, start from your home first.  Pay attention to each action. Children learn ethics at home.  Good and evil have existed in every age where children are taught and taught good and positive things.  There, goodness and positive thinking prevail in society.

 When mothers themselves are not aware of good things and positive attitudes, what will they introduce to their children?  So today the situation is that evils are scattered everywhere in the society. The family is being affected and the joint family system is breaking down.


 The woman who compromised for the sake of her home, worked with patience and endurance and made sacrifices, but the society that upheld the high values ​​of life did not respect her and did not appreciate her sincere efforts and sacrifices.



 Then this woman did not pass on these values ​​to her daughter and the new generation. So those values ​​became the characters of myths and dreams. The result was that materialism violated our moral values ​​badly. Only in society.  Not only the mother-child relationship is a priority but also the father and other close relationships play an important role in shaping the child's personality. The family system is still somewhat effective in our middle class and good values ​​are still seen there today.  To say that the whole society is heading for disaster is not correct.


 Today's youth are greatly affected by the circumstances around them. Parents, especially mothers, guide their children. Therefore, they must first set an example for themselves.  Remember that in today's world, parents need to do a good job of educating their children in a very disciplined manner. For this, they should plan regularly.  Communication plays a very important role.


 There is no doubt that society is changing rapidly, materialism is increasing and necessities are increasing. Our religion has placed great emphasis on respecting the elders, speaking the truth in all circumstances, and loving the younger ones.



 Only when the parents themselves follow these points will the children follow them. Halal sustenance is very helpful in the training of children.  We must trust children and tell them the difference between good and bad.  Only by following all these things can we prove ourselves as good parents and build a good and evil free society.

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