Friday, September 18, 2020
There are five main differences between successful and unsuccessful people
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important instructions regarding raising children.
Some important instructions regarding raising children.
(1) It is a habit of women to frighten their children with ghosts and other scary things. This is very wrong. It weakens the child's heart.
(2) The mother should keep frightening the child from the father.
(2) If it is a boy, do not grow hair on its head, and if it is a girl, do not wear ornaments until you are able to sit behind a veil. On the one hand, it is life threatening and on the other hand, it is not a good thing to have a passion for jewelery in one's heart since childhood.
(3) Give food, clothes, money and such things to the poor from the hands of children. In the same way, distribute food and drink to their siblings or other children so that your children have a habit of generosity.
(4) Do evil to the one who eats too much in front of the children, but not in the name of the one who eats so much, but those who eat too much are called Abyssinians.
(5) If he is a boy, create in his heart the desire for white clothes and make him hate colorful clothes that girls wear such clothes. You are a man, God willing. Always do such things in front of him.
(6) If she is a girl, do not make her a habit of wearing too much clothes.
(7) Do not fulfill all the demands of children. This makes the baby's mood worse.
(8) Stop shouting, especially if you are a girl. Otherwise, it will become a strong habit when it grows up.
(9) Prevent children who have bad habits or run away from reading and writing or who are accustomed to eating and dressing in a difficult manner, from sitting and playing with them.
(10) Keep hating these things, be angry, lie, be jealous or jealous when you see someone, steal, gossip, talk a lot of useless things. Laugh out loud or laugh too much, cheat, don't think of good or bad things. And when any of these things happen, stop it immediately and warn against it
(11) If something breaks or kills someone, punish the child appropriately so that he does not do it again. In such things love loses the child.
(12) When the child is seven years old, make it a habit to pray. When you are able to go to school, recite the Quran first.
(13) Don't go to bed too early. Get in the habit of getting up early.
(14) Sometimes tell children stories of good people.
(15) Do not let them see books that contain words of love or nonsense stories and ghazals, etc.
(16) After coming from school, let the child play for some time for some entertainment so that his nature does not become dull. But the game should be one in which there is no sin and no fear of injury.
(17) Don't give money to buy fireworks, or baja or junk, and don't get in the habit of showing games.
(18) Be sure to teach your children a skill that will enable them to support themselves and their children by earning four paise in times of need and distress.
(19) Teach girls to read and write at least as much as they can to write the necessary letters and calculate the house.
(20) Get children in the habit of doing their own thing. Don't be crippled or lazy. Make your own bed at night and get up in the morning and fold it yourself carefully.
(21) Instruct the girls to learn the tasks of cooking and dyeing their breasts with great diligence.
(22) When a good thing is revealed to a child, it is necessary. Praise him, love him and give him some reward so that his heart may grow. And when you see a bad thing, explain to the child in solitude that good people do not do such things and People know the perpetrator badly. And if the child repeats the wrong act again, punish the child appropriately.
(23) Do not let your child do anything secretly. Be it sports or food or any occupation.
(24) Assign a task to him so that he may be healthy and courageous.
(25) Encourage children to walk so that they do not walk too fast and do not look up while walking.
(26) Make it a habit to be humble, by language, by demeanor, and by demeanor. Don't brag.
(27) Give the child some money to spend as you wish. But make it a habit not to buy anything from you
Tuesday, September 15, 2020
Principles of a successful life
According to psychologists, adolescence is a crucial time that paves the way for the rest of your life.
It is a universal fact that every individual has some limitations and is constantly trying to go beyond them.
Challenging yourself leads to a better and more successful life.
It is not always easy to make a change for the better, but it is important and worth the effort.
As hard as it may sound to hear, there are some things, habits or changes in this age that you can adopt to form the basis of your future life.
Self-confidence but also awareness of limits
The first step in achieving your dreams and goals is to acknowledge that you are a human being, that you are not perfect and that you cannot do everything alone. Always think realistically, don't put so much pressure on yourself that it becomes difficult to walk, believe in yourself that you can work according to your needs, but don't be afraid of failure. Admit your mistakes, set goals and enjoy the journey.
Make life simple
There are thousands of things that need your attention in your daily routine, such as tidying up your children's room over and over again, doing home and office work, taking time out of work schedule, meeting people or relatives, helping with children's school work. To do and others. One thing to keep in mind, you can't do any of these things unless you have a clear idea of how to simplify life, relationships and the environment, because then the responsibilities There is a sense of reduction in burden while not in a hurry.
To be moderate
To make a living, we work, socialize, do family work, eat, shop or watch television, but in any case, extremism destroys every aspect of life, just by our own understanding. Prevent behavior like insanity in any regard by taking action. Spend less than you earn, focus on food and watch less TV, then in middle age the body will be grateful to you.
Don't live your life according to others
It may seem easy to use other people's expectations and values, but doing so will never satisfy you in life. Experts say that the only thing you can do to help others is to live your life the way you want. Don't do what other people tell you to do and don't try to take care of other people's expectations, you won't get the opportunity you missed when you get older.
Focus on action, not success
Life is a journey, not a destination, with each passing day you have to do something for your survival, so don't pay attention to the consequences when something goes wrong, because when you think about the consequences So there will always be negative thinking, remember life is not perfect, so both success and failure are faced and you should be ready for them with open arms.
Others think according to their expectations
If you treat your loved ones the way you would like to be treated, you may face difficulties. Instead, treat them as they would like to be treated. For example, if you do not like to call, you will not call a friend or a loved one, thinking that he may be thinking the same as you, but it does not happen. Try to be sensitive to the needs of others, enlarge your heart and make it a habit to do something good with others.
Focus on the present moment
Stop thinking about what happened in the past, or what is going to happen in the future, don't worry about it. Pay attention to the situation you are in at the moment and try to improve it.
Make thinking positive
Your personality is what you think about throughout the day, if your thoughts are negative then you should not expect anything more in life, positive thinking about life or circumstances can also lead to failure. Can help change, once you make your thinking positive, you will be amazed by its magic.
Don't be afraid to learn new things
The most interesting people are those who are interested in life and do not stay closed in a shell, they discover learning opportunities and refine their personality personally and professionally, the process of learning should continue throughout life. No age stops you from learning something new.
Use patience instead of haste
Of course, nothing can be done immediately or everyone is in a hurry for an important meeting, but it is also important not to let the feeling of frustration overwhelm you. Obstacles such as travel delays, incompetence of people or any other reason are not under your control, but impatient response to these issues is of no use. Anxiety and impatience can lead to stress, which can lead to a weakened immune system, irritability, high blood pressure, stress on the heart and deterioration of relationships. So learn to work patiently on difficulties beyond your control and take some time to think about how to improve it or take a deep breath.
Don't panic when making a decision
Analyzing the hundreds of people who have achieved success, it is clear that they all have one thing in common and that is that they do not hesitate to make a decision. As the saying goes, making a wrong decision is better than not making a decision anyway.
Choosing wisely
There are 3 things that can change your life and that is friends, books and your thoughts. So make your choices wisely and give preference to well-meaning friends and books that help make ideas positive.
Avoid complaining all the time
No one likes a person who complains all the time, if you look around you will see many people who are in trouble but still doing a lot of good. Don't blame others for your problems, avoid justification and avoid too much sensitivity, no one likes drama all the time.
Pakistan 🇵🇰 History
In terms of the current population of Pakistan, the history of differences between the two major provinces of Punjab and Sindh over water issues is a century old.
When Sindh came under British rule in 1843 and Punjab four years later, the British, realizing the agricultural importance of the region, embarked on irrigation development projects. Around 1875, Upper Bari Doab and later other water projects started in Punjab.
When the Punjab government sought approval for the Thal project around 1882, Sindh objected and for the first time, according to the documents available to me, differences arose between Punjab and Sindh.
Punjab and Sindh were important in terms of agriculture
Sindh objected that Punjab should not be allowed any water project on the Indus unless Sindh's water needs are met.
The British government, accepting Sindh's objections, rejected the Punjab's 'Thal Project' project and the differences between Punjab and Sindh began to grow.
At the beginning of the twentieth century, the India Irrigation Commission was set up and this commission formally asked Punjab to seek Sindh's consent before embarking on any water project on the Indus River System.
Meanwhile, the gap between the two provinces on various projects widened and in 1919 the Government of India Act was enacted which made it mandatory that in case of differences over water projects in Punjab and Sindh, the final decision should be made by the Viceroy. The parties will be bound to abide by it.
When Sindh submitted a plan to build the Sukkur Barrage to Lord Chelmsford in 1919, Punjab again submitted the Thal project.
The Lord approved the Sukkur Barrage and the Thal project, saying that the Punjab project on the Indus would not be approved until the needs of Sindh were met.
Punjab and Sindh were important in terms of agriculture and since the British government had already completed some projects in Punjab and Sukkur Barrage was the first project of their time in Sindh, work on it started.
When Lord Chelmsford was replaced by Lord Reading by the British Government, in 1925, Punjab submitted for the third time the Thal Project, a proposed water project on the Indus River. Sindh reiterated its objection that there are five other rivers in Punjab besides the Indus, so none of its water projects on the Indus should be approved until the needs of Sindh are met and Lord Reading also rejected the Punjab project.
The Sindh-Punjab Agreement was signed in 1945
Rejecting the Thal project, Lord Reading wrote that Sindh was "on the brink of the river and the project is being rejected in their interest". As a result, differences over water projects in Punjab and Sindh continued to grow.
Following differences and mistrust over irrigation projects in Punjab and Sindh, the British government set up two commissions. The Anderson Commission was formed in 1935 and the Rao Commission in 1941, but the recommendations of any commission could not be agreed between Punjab and Sindh.
The last time the British government signed the Sindh-Punjab Agreement was in 1945, under which Punjab had to provide funds for barrages and other water projects in Sindh in exchange for water projects on the Indus River.
But after the agreement, on October 13, 1945, the Secretary Irrigation of Punjab wrote a letter to the Secretary Finance of Sindh saying that Punjab could not pay. Later it was divided and became Pakistan and this agreement could not be implemented.
After the formation of Pakistan, four commissions and committees were formed but unfortunately the recommendations of any commission or committee could not be agreed upon in both the provinces.
Water distribution system in the country
The Akhtar Committee was formed in 1968, the Fazal Akbar Commission in 1907, the Anwar-ul-Haq Commission in 1981 and the Haleem Committee in 1983.
After the formation of Pakistan on the Indus River in Kotri in Sindh Province and in Punjab
Jinnah became a barrage and Punjab built a canal called Thal from this barrage and thus the seventy year old wish of Punjab's Thal project was fulfilled.
In 1961, when the Indus Basin Treaty was signed between India and Pakistan and the military president Ayub Khan gave three rivers to India and got it in return.
The money and the money provided by Pakistan led to other projects, including Tarbela in NWFP and Mangla Dam in Punjab.
In the time of Ayub Khan, Chashma Jhelum (CJ) Link Canal was built and water is diverted from Indus River to Jhelum River through this canal. On which Sindh raised strong objections and decided that this canal will flow when the Indus River has more water than the needs of Sindh province.
Differences between the two provinces continued on the CJ Canal and on July 3, 1950, Hafeez Pirzada, Mumtaz Ali Bhutto from Sindh and Ghulam Mustafa Khar from Punjab signed an agreement as the representative of the federation.
According to the agreement, Punjab agreed that it would not drain the canal permanently without Sindh's consent.
Distribution of rivers in Pakistan
But a few months later, Sindh started accusing Punjab of violating the agreement and stealing water, and the differences and accusations between the two provinces continued. Hafeez Pirzada, Afzal Wattoo and Jam Sadiq signed.
It was once again decided that Punjab would close the canal within three days of the announcement of closure of the canal by Sindh.
Despite these agreements, the differences between the two provinces did not end, and in 1985, when the Governor of Punjab, General Jilani, allegedly forcibly reopened the canal, the differences escalated.
Finally, in 1991, an agreement was reached between the four provinces to share water.
The agreement states that new reservoirs will be built. But it does not mention the Kala Bagh Dam. Only two years after this agreement, according to Sindh, Punjab started violating it and one of the distribution of water in 1994.
And there was a temporary agreement.
The Chashma-Jhelum Link Canal, which was a non-permanent flowing canal and later became a permanent flowing canal, gave rise to the idea in Sindh that when an agreement on a canal was not implemented, the Kalan Kala Bagh Dam was built tomorrow. What is the guarantee of not stopping the flow of water in Sindh?
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