important instructions regarding raising children.

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Some important instructions regarding raising children.

  (1) It is a habit of women to frighten their children with ghosts and other scary things. This is very wrong. It weakens the child's heart.
  (2) The mother should keep frightening the child from the father.
  (2) If it is a boy, do not grow hair on its head, and if it is a girl, do not wear ornaments until you are able to sit behind a veil.  On the one hand, it is life threatening and on the other hand, it is not a good thing to have a passion for jewelery in one's heart since childhood.
  (3) Give food, clothes, money and such things to the poor from the hands of children.  In the same way, distribute food and drink to their siblings or other children so that your children have a habit of generosity.
  (4) Do evil to the one who eats too much in front of the children, but not in the name of the one who eats so much, but those who eat too much are called Abyssinians.
  (5) If he is a boy, create in his heart the desire for white clothes and make him hate colorful clothes that girls wear such clothes. You are a man, God willing.  Always do such things in front of him.
  (6) If she is a girl, do not make her a habit of wearing too much clothes.
  (7) Do not fulfill all the demands of children.  This makes the baby's mood worse.
  (8) Stop shouting, especially if you are a girl.  Otherwise, it will become a strong habit when it grows up.
  (9) Prevent children who have bad habits or run away from reading and writing or who are accustomed to eating and dressing in a difficult manner, from sitting and playing with them.
  (10) Keep hating these things, be angry, lie, be jealous or jealous when you see someone, steal, gossip, talk a lot of useless things.  Laugh out loud or laugh too much, cheat, don't think of good or bad things.  And when any of these things happen, stop it immediately and warn against it
  (11) If something breaks or kills someone, punish the child appropriately so that he does not do it again.  In such things love loses the child.
  (12) When the child is seven years old, make it a habit to pray.  When you are able to go to school, recite the Quran first.
  (13) Don't go to bed too early.  Get in the habit of getting up early.
  (14) Sometimes tell children stories of good people.
  (15) Do not let them see books that contain words of love or nonsense stories and ghazals, etc.
  (16) After coming from school, let the child play for some time for some entertainment so that his nature does not become dull.  But the game should be one in which there is no sin and no fear of injury.
  (17) Don't give money to buy fireworks, or baja or junk, and don't get in the habit of showing games.
  (18) Be sure to teach your children a skill that will enable them to support themselves and their children by earning four paise in times of need and distress.
  (19) Teach girls to read and write at least as much as they can to write the necessary letters and calculate the house.
  (20) Get children in the habit of doing their own thing.  Don't be crippled or lazy.  Make your own bed at night and get up in the morning and fold it yourself carefully.
  (21) Instruct the girls to learn the tasks of cooking and dyeing their breasts with great diligence.
  (22) When a good thing is revealed to a child, it is necessary. Praise him, love him and give him some reward so that his heart may grow. And when you see a bad thing, explain to the child in solitude that good people do not do such things and  People know the perpetrator badly.  And if the child repeats the wrong act again, punish the child appropriately.
  (23) Do not let your child do anything secretly.  Be it sports or food or any occupation.
  (24) Assign a task to him so that he may be healthy and courageous.
  (25) Encourage children to walk so that they do not walk too fast and do not look up while walking.
  (26) Make it a habit to be humble, by language, by demeanor, and by demeanor.  Don't brag.
  (27) Give the child some money to spend as you wish.  But make it a habit not to buy anything from you